Thursday, June 30, 2011

5 Years Ago…….

I married my best friend…..

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It was a beautiful day, not scorching hot like today was, but pretty much perfect. We had a blast at the reception!!

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Oh to be that young again and have no idea what life has in store for you. It’s been a BUSY 5 years, in the last 5 years we have:

Got Married

Bought into Willies Manhattan (actually that happened a few days before the wedding.)

Got pregnant

Miscarriage

Got pregnant again

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Had this little guy:

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Opened The Pub

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Bought a bar in El Dorado, KS

Moved (in with the in-laws)

Started new job at the YMCA

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Got pregnant

Sold house in Manhattan

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Had this little girl:

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Bought a bar in Atchison, KS

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Celebrated our 5 year anniversary (that brings us to today).

Gasp. That’s A LOT in 5 years. I am sure I am forgetting stuff, but you get the gist of it. Lots of moving, bars and babies, ha!

Happy Anniversary Josh. Here’s to many more days (no more bars though, PLEASE!!), and memories ahead. I love you!!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Few More Pics…

Here are a few more pictures of the kids I took yesterday. I LOVE my camera but holy moly I don’t know how the heck to use it!!

I would love to take a photography class, I found one at City Arts in Wichita that I might take. It’s a 3 wk course for $45 and meets one evening a week. What a great way to learn the basics of photography AND get a night off!! So I think I might sign up for it. I also would like to take a photoshop class cause again that is greek to me!! Masks, and feathers, and layers, oh my!

I still have fun playing around with my camera though and I think that’s one of the best ways to learn. Luckily the kids were being cooperative and actually let me snap a few of them (that RARELY happens). Harper is saying cheese in all of these pictures, that makes it a little funnier to look at these cause you can just hear her little voice saying  “CHEEEESE!”

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Watching Papa mow the yard.

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Eeeek, flash was a bit bright on this one, sorry kids! Hey do you see that hair in the back on Harper? WOO HOO we are getting some hair people!!!

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Gotta love that smile!! Happy Tuesday!

Monday, June 27, 2011

Just a Summer Evening…

I have been wanting to experiment with taking pictures with my camera in manual mode so Harper and I went for a walk down to my friend Brandi’s house and I got to take some cute pictures of the girls (Paxton was at vacation bible school). Miss Eleanor is a camera HAM!! She just loved it when I took her picture and would giggle and dance and then run up to me so I would take her picture again. Harper was waaaay too interested in playing with Eleanor’s toys to be bothered for a picture but I got some cute ones when we got home.

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Don’t you just DIE over how adorable this little girl is? Those eyes, those curls!! Her personality is just as sweet as she is. Love ya E!!

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Harper goin in for some hugs!

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“CHEESE!” She makes this face now when I take her picture cause she thinks the flash is going to be bright.

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Sooooo ladylike!

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Happy Monday everyone! Hope you all have a great week!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Back in the Swing of Things

Warning: long post, kinda boring, not a lot of pictures.

I haven’t blogged in over a week because I have been sick, tired, and did I mention sick?

It all started LAST Friday (a week ago). I took Pax to his t-ball game and Josh’s parents took Harper to the Relay for Life. I felt fine at the game (super hot, but fine) and after the game I swung through Arby’s to get Pax dinner and then we went to meet up at the Relay for Life. While I was driving I noticed that my clothes HURT where they touched my skin (do you know what I mean? When your clothes just hurt and you know you’re getting sick?) I brushed it off as just being hot and dirty. We were at the Relay for about an hour and I just kept feeling worse and worse. I was super tired and my head and throat were hurting. Pax was going to stay the night at the walk with Nana and Papa so I took Harper home with me (Pax didn’t get to stay, it stormed, and well we all know how I feel about storms.)

I went to bed early and woke up at midnight with the chills and a fever. I felt AWFUL!!! I was up all night, I was hot, I was cold, I was hot, I was cold. All I kept thinking was that Josh had to work all day the next day and how the heck was I going to take care of 2 active kids when I felt like I got hit by a car?

Luckily my Mother in law is a lifesaver and came the next morning at 9 am and took the kids for the WHOLE day!! I, on the other hand, slept all day! I could barely lift my head off the pillow, I may have even cried a few times because I felt so awful. I have a pretty high pain tolerance, I have had 2 c-sections and don’t think I shed a tear once in pain from those. My throat hurt so bad I was spitting in a bottle so I wouldn’t have to swallow (sorry T.M.I., but just wanted you to get the whole picture of how bad it really was) and the lymph nodes in my neck were the size of small tumors, I just knew I had strep.

Saturday night we had more storms (Josh was working) and they were supposed to be severe. I am laying in bed and the weather radio alarm keeps going off in the kitchen. Normally I would leap out of bed and turn on the news, the computer and my weather app on my phone. Ya know what I did? I walked (painfully slow) into the kitchen and unplugged the damn weather radio, then walked (painfully slow) back in my room and turned off the t.v. (the light was hurting my brain). My final thoughts before I went back to sleep were, “hope the tornado sirens will wake me up if shit hits the fan.”

Sunday was Fathers Day and guess what I did? I slept all day again (in my defense Josh worked on Mothers Day this year, so we are even).

On Monday I went to the doctor. He felt my neck and cringed, then looked in my throat and cringed some more, then he said “we will do a strep test but I don’t think it’s strep” then he sighs and sits down!! I am thinking “OMG do I have cancer???” He says “I think it’s mono.” MONO!!??!! Aren’t horny teenagers who all make out with each other the only ones who get mono? The only people I kiss is my husband and my children!! I don’t even like hugging people!!! So he says we will do a strep test, if it comes back negative then it’s probably mono. It was too early to do a mono test so he couldn’t just test me for that too. So I get the swab (gag, literally) and wait the 5 minutes PRAYING it comes back positive…..it doesn’t. So I am sent home with instructions to rest and come back on Thursday for the mono test. Fast forward 4 days, I go back Thursday, this time it’s a needle prick (the girl was amazeballs I didn’t even feel the needle go in!) and wait 8 minutes and the doctor comes out and takes me in a room sighs and says “you have mono.”

So I have mono. Which explains the narcoleptic tendencies I have been having lately, I could literally fall asleep in the shower I am so tired sometimes. It just hits me out of nowhere too, I will be fine and the next minute I feel like I just ran a marathon and could sleep for a day!! I am lucky though because I have a very mild case, I know that you can get REALLY sick with mono, so I am grateful that all I really have to deal with is the exhaustion. I have to be careful not to overdo it though because I could get sick again. I can’t work out until the end of next week and then I have to go slow and listen to my body. This is also why I almost passed out after working out a couple weeks ago. The doctor assured me that as long as I don’t relapse I should be ok to start my half marathon training next month.

So that’s what I have been up to this week. I did go back to work, but I am so tired after only working a couple hours I go home and sleep while the kids rest.

Also my birthday was this week. 29, last year before the dirty 30!! Josh and I went to dinner with our good friends Brandi and Robby. It was a good/memorable night. I haven’t taken any pictures this week except with my phone so I will post those. Hopefully I can get back into the swing of things and be back to regular blogging next week.

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Paxton’s posing for his t-ball picture.

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my lunch dates on my birthday.

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Birthday dinner.

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Brandi and Robby. Good memories with great friends!

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Our view at dinner.

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Someone likes ketchup!

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I made this to hang Paxton’s artwork. It was super easy!!

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Painted a wooden circle, hodge podged some paper on it, glued a wooden spool to it then used picture wire and clippies to hang the artwork. Got the idea off of pinterest (click on that it will take you there, not now though, finish reading this first, then go. But be ready to be hooked.) Have you heard of this website? I am slightly obsessed and by that I mean it pretty much consumes my life lately!!.

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My birthday present to myself. Found this little cabinet at a local antique store (that I went into for the first time and am now madly in love with and I don’t want to share where it is cause I am totally selfish). This was only $20!!! I am going to get some little baskets to put underneath in that empty space. I just love it to bits, I walk by it and it makes me so happy. I saw some other pieces of furniture there that I want to go back and get, I love unique things like this and I especially love them when they are so cheap!

Ok sorry sisters that I don’t have more pictures, however I do have a pretty good excuse (my sisters get mad when I don’t post a bajillion pictures of the kids). I will be better next week, I promise.

Actually speaking of pictures that is one thing I want to get accomplished next week. I really want to take the kids to the farm one evening and take some cute pics out there again. I also have some other projects on my list, oh yeah and cleaning, sheesh apparently dirt and grime don’t get the memo when you are sick and they still show up in all their glory!! Rude.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Pity Party…

 We started swimming lessons this week, and ya know what else started? Me getting my butt back in the gym!!

I have this bad habit of doing REALLY good working out and eating well and then I skip a day or 2 and the next thing I know it’s been 2 months since I saw a treadmill. Now I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me, and I am NOT making any excuses, this is all my fault and I take complete blame. However, that being said, I am making an effort to be more consistent this go round.

I signed up for an employee bootcamp and Tuesday was my first day. I have done YMCA bootcamps before and group training, so this wasn’t my first rodeo. So imagine my surprise about 45 minutes into it when I almost PASS OUT!! Not kidding, we are walking(yes walking, as in cooling down, as in not exerting a lot of effort) around the track and all of a sudden I get cold and sweaty and dizzy. This has happened before so I knew what was coming next and I knew I needed to sit down…..FAST! I tell my group I am not feeling well so we walk to the nearest weight bench and I sit down, as I am sitting there I start feeling worse and my vision starts to go. I am so embarrassed because I work there and the last thing I want to do is pass out at the Y!! But it was getting hard to keep my head up and I just knew at any minute I was going to faint. Well what happens? I throw up! Which in my book is WORSE!! I am thinking to myself “OMG I JUST PUKED AT MY WORK IN FRONT OF CO-WORKERS AND MEMBERS, SOMEONE KILL ME NOW AND PUT ME OUT OF MY FREAKIN MISERY!!” It was awful, everyone was so nice though and didn’t make me feel stupid at all.

The reason I am sharing this with you is although it is embarrassing, humiliating, and downright shameful, that this happened to me, I still finished the bootcamp and I got up and went running this morning. I am not going to let a little incident stop me from trying to be healthier. I plan on getting up and running again tomorrow too. In case I need a little MORE motivation, I can just recall a conversation I had with a member at the Y yesterday:

Random old lady: “That dress is so adorable, I just LOVE the color.”

Me:"Oh well thank you”

R.O.L.: “Yes my daughter just had a baby too and these look like they are great at covering up big bellies, no offense”

Me: (nervous, pissed off laughter) “ Yeah I didn’t just have a baby, but yes they are very comfortable and they DO hide a lot.”

Yeah true story, that really happened. I pretty much wanted to jump into the pool at that point to hide my red cheeks…..and apparently my fat belly!!

Seriously, this week has taught me a lot about the true meaning of humiliation!!!

Side noteI think I might need to see a doctor to figure out this whole passing out thing (3rd time I have almost passed out while working out). It’s probably something really simple like my blood sugar and I just need to eat the right thing before working out, however better safe than sorry.

Ok so Paxton’s swimming: it’s going so well!! I can’t believe how much progress he has made in just a few days. He can swim on his own(without floaties or assistance) across the pool. He is so proud while he is doing it and just keeps looking over at me with this goofy grin on his face. Funny story: Monday was his first day of swimming, I took him out of Kid Zone at 11:30 to feed him lunch before his 12:00 class (I was also working till 12). I put him at my desk to eat and when he was finished I told him to wait right there and when I came back we would get him changed for swimming. When I said this I meant we would go to the LOCKER ROOM and change. I went away from my desk for a minute and when I came back he was NAKED…..AT MY CUBICLE…..AT THE YMCA…..IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DAY!!! I yelped then grabbed his swim trunks and was trying to wrestle him into them before anyone saw him (my cubicle is at the very front, so I am sure plenty of people saw him). I felt bad cause I think I embarrassed him when I freaked out a little, he didn’t know any better, but seriously kid! Yesterday on the way to swimming, he said “Mommy I won’t get naked at your desk today, sorry bout that.” Uh yeah thanks, appreciated.

Hopefully the rest of the week goes smoother, seriously it can only go up from here right? I think the fat jab was probably rock bottom.

Here’s pictures of the kids, at least they give me plenty of comic relief in this crazy life!! Can’t take yourself too seriously with these 2 goobers around all the time!

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Paxton actually lets me take his picture now!! This is his new summer hairdo.

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In my previous post I mentioned that Little Miss has been walking into the kitchen and stripping down(seriously what IS IT with my kids getting naked?) She has done it twice with me and once with Josh.

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Check out the drool in the above pic. She was getting mad cause she couldn’t get her pants off.

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Chocolate pudding incident…….it’s way more fun when it is used as paint and then LICKED off your belly!!!

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